Dec 9, 2019
#52: Whether you know it or not, you were raised to live in a “Man Box.”
“The Man Box” is a term developed in the 1980’s by a group of men called the Oakland Men’s Project in order to define the series of qualities men are instructed to embody in order to “be a man”:
The contents of the Man Box can be broken down into 5 categories:
So long as you follow these rules, you will experience a sense of belonging and be looked to as “a man.”
These archaic rules are not only toxic to society, they’ve trapped you into a way of living that isn’t your own…
…instead, you’ve drifted into this cage unwittingly.
You need to break these 5 rules of “Man Box Masculinity” and re-define your own rules.
Here are a few ways of knowing you’ve been socialized into The Man Box: